My friend Lucy shared this great article about becoming a mother. It rang true. If you are expecting or have kids or wonder what a lady goes through, read it. I've never read such an accurate description of those feelings of isolation and identity loss.
But, as the gays say, it gets better. Now that I've been a mama for almost four years, I'm starting to get my sea legs and I have a clearer idea of who I am. And now that I have children to raise, I have more motivation than ever to be that person.